Okay...so as a post note to my
 not being concerned about a certain person anymore.....
We still exist in some of the same places so it is really quite difficult NOT to cross each others' paths :)
seriously....after seeing the
 real pics of her hands....the 'blue lunulae’ and really swollen looking finger 
features 
that I could only assume were a sign of obesity or lack of oxygen....I mean even tho the pics 
look 
obviously touched up....the blue lunulae is still 
so obvious.....I was just like telling myself..
"Okay...so now we are finally seeing the real person???"....And honestly...I started getting to 
like her
even though I came from a place of not 
ever thinking I would ever be able to say that :)  And I 
also want to give her some props here
 even though she has often stated that she doesn't read anything
I write.....she has
 finally started showing some newer images of herself...and IMO  she really looks more
beautiful in them than the
 false images that she thought she had to portray...
we do not have to be or look young to be hip...or looked up to..and I think she may have 
finally realized that....I can only speculate on that as it
 looks as tho she is now more comfortable in her own skin......
I myself am dealing with medical issues that have contributed to the fact that I am not the same 
"Hottie" that I was 
even 3 years ago but hey--that's just what happens when we pass the age of 50....! LOL! 
but I know that my own self esteem value now in myself  is 
not for the way I once
looked....
but for all of the wonderful things that I can still offer....if I live to be 80 and people in my life 
still
think I am "cool" and there are still a few friends left to help me remember the crazy thing so far that I call
my life....it's all good:)
And honestly..I have called the person out a few times after she said some things about me...but am 
seriously happy to see that she is now more comfortable in her own true skin.  We will never be friends
but I truly wish her the best :)