Saturday, December 8, 2012

What to do when dealing with a Narcissist?

Okay...have any of you ever dealt with this type of situation?.....
Someone tells you....."We need to talk this over it's called communicating "
And at first you simply know that the outcome is not gonna be a good one so you just 
A.-----  try to ignore the situation
But of course this can not just simply go away....they keep insisting the need for so called "resolution" of a non-problem that only they themselves are then
this turns into
B.-------you say there is really no reason to discuss this 
and then the person says that you are creating drama because you see no reason to discuss a non-issue that they are trying to create....
and then it becomes a 
C. situation-----you are left with nothing but telling them what you really think
and "Hello Houston" we definitely have a real problem now LOL!
And this is what happens every now and then....especially when dealing with a Narcissist who is getting what I call "NARCK---IER" all the time LOL....
and this is a good definition of a Narcissist that I found a long time ago.............

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for admiration. Those with narcissistic personality disorder believe that they're superior to others and have little regard for other people's feelings. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem, vulnerable to the slightest criticism. 

note to self.....
waste of time to get caught up in drama with a known narcissist 
just wanted to share this in case someone is going through a similar situation and has no clue why the person they are dealing with might be acting in such a KRAAA... KRAAAAAAAAA manner 
Walk away....sneak away....get the frick under their radar so they can go on and obsess about something else besides you....
just do it....
ignore them as best as you can
my only advice here and now
and best of luck and best wishes to anyone out there who has gone thru a similar situation :)
here is a funny example about a real narcissist...and those who post messages to themselves and about themselves come to mind LOL....

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