I have heard some say something to the effect that as time goes by it always gets easier....
I would question this as easier to forget?
Or easier to simply stop remembering??
And speaking for myself.....it so far has not gotten easier....
sometimes other things pop up
but in my case.....
I miss my Momma as much or
even more today
than the day I lost her
and she used to tell me
"Promise me you will never forget about me"
and I can't and I won't
and anyone out there who has ever lost
anyone in their life
that they loved with all of their heart
knows what I know...
that it never gets easier....
but remembering them and the
things that they loved and
trying to honor their memory
to me.....is the one thing that
does make it at the time seem a bit easier :=)
here is a pic of one of the last
pics that my Mom mailed me...
when she was out of town
from one of her and dad's trips
to Trinidad Cali....
and of him and her doggies
and her inscription on back.....
and remembering how much she
loved being there
makes me smile today :=)