Okay...so yesterday I made my little "kooky kitschy green gal" as a way to ----let off steam ----step back ----and take a laugh at my most recent situation with my "favorite" admirer. I mean, there's really only so much you can take before you just get fed up with certain things. And I really don't know if it is because I am getting older or the steroids or a combination of the 2.....I just seem to have a much lower tolerance for bull crap these days. Bottom line.
So "Marie" (real first name starts with an "M" imagine that yuk-yuk)....... anyhoo....I have talked about this before and I know it's starting to sound like a broken record yada yada yada bada bing bang ...but the fact of the matter is it all started when I became the featured seller on a venue and then she for some unknown reason went on her blog badmouthing me and the venue and had her knickers all bunched up in one hot pantie mess because they wouldn't listen to her disdain regarding lil ole me. She fails to point out when she is ranting about me that in fact....she is the one who started this whole thing. And why? I guess you'd have to ask her about that one.
And it has become this deal where she says things and I respond to them. She still can't wrap her head around that concept. Very simply
A)------She says or does something about me
B)------I respond to what she does.
It's not rocket science.
So the pettiness got to the point where I put her on "ignore" because....on the one hand....it just isn't worth even caring what she does....so at that point I stopped checking to see if she was still saying stuff about me. It's like I don't care about her, I don't like her character, and why I should care about what she is doing ...so I stay away from her pages but I do however have a couple of peeps who let me know when there is something she has done or said concerning me that they think I should know about.
This leads us to the other night when someone tells me that she has "highlighted" my feedback and was using it in her "farewell" speech on her business page . And why would she do that one might ask??????
A)------Playing games.
B)-----Pushing buttons.
C)-----All of the above.
Hmnnn... I'll go with "C" on that one :) So am I going to let her use my feedback to promote her product after all of the things that have gone on between us? Of course not. So I go and modify my feedback and say something to the effect of "Marie what a better place the world would be if you'd only put your pot stirring stick away for one day hee-hee".
So then what happens????... 911-knicker knot alert........
She goes on her business page and puts this entire rant about me my name my shop name yada yada....and in my world that is some pretty gosh dern malicious behavior coming from the official pot kettle caller herself. The way I see it is this.
When I come to my blog or my twitter and say things regarding something she has said about me...those are my spaces where my friends and people hang out...not hers. And we all have screen shot capabilities. I have said it before there is such a thing as a time line where the things I have said are reactions to what she has first said or done. And the thing is that to me it has nothing to do about business. I think that her and I have completely different audiences. Even though a few of the things that we make are similar items....we are in no way in competition with one another. So I can't understand why she keeps obsessing about me. I just don't get it.
To me the funniest part about her recent rant about me was when she said
"It's amazing she has ANY time to maintain and promote her multiple shops AND work her day job, all the while spending so much time selflessly promoting others who have caught her eye."
One would think that if "Marie" spent less time obsessing about what I am doing on my own pages that she would have more time to spread all of that "positivity" she talks about :)
It's very simple Marie...let me break it down for you here
A)----If you don't like my blog or twitter or other places....stay off of them.
B)----If you don't like me saying anything about you then stop pushing buttons, stirring the pot and saying things about me.
Once again.....It's not rocket science.
I also would have to think that if she could just clearly step back away from the situation for a bit...she might begin to realize how stupid it looks for her to be ranting about me on her business page.....(her being a business person and all)...but it only goes to further prove my point....that she is the one who can't let this go. And I have to admit...even though I think I am pretty dog gone special Marie......I'm just a little ole country bumpkin here in Bako. There really are bigger fish to fry out there. I just think you would be so much happier if you would just get over me.
Until then...I will try to just keep you on ignore....and yes old gal..even though you are still at the top of my list of wishy washy peeps....you still have quite a knack at pushing buttons. I've gotta give you that. (Maybe you were an elevator operator in a former life) Going up? heh-heh.
Showing posts with label wishy washy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wishy washy. Show all posts
Friday, August 17, 2012
Sunday, May 20, 2012
No issues today because I'm in my awesome bubble LOL...A.k.a.--"NTOA"---"NO thorny ones allowed" hee-hee
So I didn't respond to her little comment on the "other" thread because unlike some people..when I say something I try to mean it...and I said I was outie from the thread and I do indeed wish the sight good luck...so I'm not even going to give her the time of day there LOL! She doesn't deserve any added attention on this one and I feel that the concerns and issues need to stay on topic ...(and not become a tirade about her personal vendetta against me ) :) I simply answered to the bullchit innuendo she made about me.....and am done with it---
So...she said this there.......
XXXXRoXXXX--- Thank you XXXXX! I don't even read what she writes because she has been doing this for four months now. And I see she didn't have the courage to do so under the name everyone knows her by. And I do wish TheCraftStar well. Bethan knows that. :)
And #1 ---- pretty funny :) that the person she thanked there had already responded to a message from me (which included the path to "a big can of worms" link on my little ole blog...) and "J" is well aware of my opinion---that this thorny one took THIS issue and tried to make it a personal one..... so I of course followed old thornsters' lead and got more personal about it LOL!
#2.... Most people that I know would agree that making a post with your actual real name that you have signed in with on FaceBook----is the name that everyone "knows you by" LMAO!---(instead of a shop name or other "fake names") ... and most would think that it tends to show that you are not afraid and it is certainly NOT a sign of "cowardice" hee-hee
#3....yes it is one thing to wish the sight "well" most of the time....but it is a big thing to me and those I know.... if you ALSO GO behind anothers' back and badmouth them as well...(which in my opinion is pretty much how this one rolls)..and you would think that at the age of 56---(the last time I looked)...that she would finally stop bringing on the "highschool" mentality ..but yah...if she kicks the first sand----she might indeed get a few reactions every now and then LOL! (But hey! She never reads them right? LOL!)
#4...... for someone who doesn't read what I write...she certainly must be extremely psychic and should perhaps quit her day job....because her "innuendos" and comments on this one topic of---"buying FB fans" alone ...if one looks at what she has posted in different places ..they are certainly directed at little ole MOI...me-mahself and eye.... quite a feat for someone who doesn't read anything I post ---Miraculous!!---( to say the least) ---Heh-heh :)
and finally #5-----I totally have her on ignore and don't care what she does.....until she creepily creeps over into my world and starts once again "falsifying" the facts..... that's when I took notice and had to call her out once again on what I think is a very wishy washy nature..........
but hey! Today I'm in my awesome bubble again...and the ignore button is on.....and yep! It's all good in the "Hood" LOL! No issues today :)
Saturday, May 19, 2012
Thorny Toad Tales In A Nutshell
Okay....I'm not gonna beat around the rose bush on this one :).......
ever since I put my "button pusher" on IGNORE I seriously haven't cared one iota about what she says or does.... however...since she has recently made it a point to boldy make statements regarding her assumptions about my "needs and motivation" regarding a recent experiment of mine.......I'm not giving her a free pass on this one :(
She said that I did it because I need the attention for myself....and all I can say is that if not being afraid to speak up about something means that someone is seeking attention...then okay....go ahead and assume that LOL! But quite frankly..all of the people who have THANKED me for bringing it to their attention ....far outweighs any negative backlash that may or may not result from me sharing my "experiment".
And since she obviously thinks it is okay to post assumptions about others....here is what I think about her seemingly repeated method of operation-----
In my opinion..ole thorny one still seems to be up to her old tricks....
In this case---- she goes to one venue and "badmouths" another venue.....then she hops over to the venue she was badmouthing and tells them not to pay attention to what people are saying over at the other venue and that they don't have to defend themselves. And how does she think that these people are not going to see what she has been saying about them over at the other venue? When all they have to do is look .... :(
Things that make you go HMNNNN?????? LOL :) And those are my thoughts in a nutshell.....an old wrinkly nutshell hee-hee.
ever since I put my "button pusher" on IGNORE I seriously haven't cared one iota about what she says or does.... however...since she has recently made it a point to boldy make statements regarding her assumptions about my "needs and motivation" regarding a recent experiment of mine.......I'm not giving her a free pass on this one :(
She said that I did it because I need the attention for myself....and all I can say is that if not being afraid to speak up about something means that someone is seeking attention...then okay....go ahead and assume that LOL! But quite frankly..all of the people who have THANKED me for bringing it to their attention ....far outweighs any negative backlash that may or may not result from me sharing my "experiment".
And since she obviously thinks it is okay to post assumptions about others....here is what I think about her seemingly repeated method of operation-----
In my opinion..ole thorny one still seems to be up to her old tricks....
In this case---- she goes to one venue and "badmouths" another venue.....then she hops over to the venue she was badmouthing and tells them not to pay attention to what people are saying over at the other venue and that they don't have to defend themselves. And how does she think that these people are not going to see what she has been saying about them over at the other venue? When all they have to do is look .... :(
Things that make you go HMNNNN?????? LOL :) And those are my thoughts in a nutshell.....an old wrinkly nutshell hee-hee.
Friday, April 20, 2012
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